Blog to share writings and musings related to the late Doris E. Roberts, PhD (Metaphysics)

Month: January 2010

The Law of Love and Attraction

Seek One, Search Two, Discover Three

 “The Journey of True Self Discovery comes to everyone of us as an inner urging to seek, search and discover that which is known of self and yet appears to be unknown.”     …Dr. Doris E. Roberts

Self Discovery is a lifetime process of living with outer change and inner transformation.  Making it fun is the challenge.  The joy is in the realization that transformation is a natural phenomenon and it truly is great because no one really wants to stay the same forever. Change is merely the process of being at one with one’s living environment.  

 Life is all about expanding continually moment by moment, filling each microsecond with a heartbeat of experiential existence, preferably the best of all there is. As we grow we gain more knowledge of why we are here now in this form on this planet.  We are each on our own Sacred Mission so why not make it an adventure?  Isn’t it about time to discover our very own mission and purpose for this lifetime?

Consider it The First Step UP.

The Magical Trio: Charm, Kindness, and Humor

I.  Charm is defined in this context as the power to arouse love and admiration. It makes you attractive and fascinating, influencing others as if by magic.  It is closely linked to enchantment: To enchant means to delight completely, to enrapture with joy – literally to encircle with song.  A truly charming personality is magical and mysterious having an alchemical effect on his or her surroundings.  Charm attracts people to you because you are genuinely interesting and engaging.  Charm also attracts Angels.                       

II.  Kindness is another element of Lightness.  A kind person will also attract Angels – and unkind person will repel everyone especially Angels.  Think about it.  Being kind is agreeable, open and without effort.  When it is forced, it is too sweet, a substitute like saccharine, for it leaves a bitter aftertaste with both parties – the giver and the receiver.                  When kindness is real – it is pure and delightful! 

III.  Humor is the essence of a light, loving open heart.  However, there is a fine line between making fun of another person and true wit.  Both discover the absurd and the ridiculous in life, but wit does it in a comfortable way so that no one is offended.  Being witty or having a sense of humor doesn’t automatically mean you make fun of anyone, including yourself.  Ridiculing others is neither charming nor funny – even when you are the brunt of your own jokes. Being witty means having the ability to combine words and ideas in a clever way that appeals to the intellect in everyone.  

Also having a sense of humor does not mean that you are the one who creates the humor.  It means you have the ability to appreciate and enjoy amusing situations and a good laugh.