Remember also it is important to realize that how you hold the people in your life in your mind is often how they react in your presence. Let go of the old way of thinking of them the way they were and see the good in them and, right before your very own eyes, the miracle of change will occur all around you. The Universe continuously changes to reflect your view of reality. Change the way you think and what you think about and watch everything and everyone in your surroundings change. It is one of the Universal Laws.